Divorce man dating women with no kids

21 Apr

And then, three months on, she did something completely unexpected and out of character: she started sleeping with other men.

Like many newly divorced women I've spoken to, it wasn't that she'd developed a voracious appetite for dating, but that in doing so she found an effective distraction from the pain of divorce.

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'For a year,' she says, 'I fooled around, sleeping with more than ten men.Confused and upset by the shock of their relationship falling apart, particularly if they hadn't wanted or expected it, they embark, initially at least, on a self-destructive pattern of seeking solace through sex with near-strangers.'I certainly hadn't ever expected to be single again at the age of 47,' says Judy. He was my first love and I never imagined a time when we wouldn't be together.' Judy felt her world had collapsed and spent most of her time in tears.We met online and within a week we'd met under the guise of going for drinks - alcohol gave us both confidence and we ended up back at my house.'He didn't stay the night, but he did send an email the following day thanking me for a "fun evening".